I left my 2-decade marriage to have sex with men 20yrs younger & take part in orgies hosted by Kate Middleton’s pal

DRESSED in a short mini dress, sky-high heels and wearing silky lingerie underneath, I stepped over the threshold into the Killing Kittens mansion. 

It was Christmas 2021 and I couldn’t see anyone properly – because like them I was wearing a sexy feather mask. My heart was initially beating with nerves and excitement but I quickly felt relaxed. For two hours around 500 people – all masked – sipped Champagne and made small talk before the clock struck 10.30pm.

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Emma Sayle (left) and Kate Middleton take part in a training session with the Sisterhood cross Channel rowing team, on the River Thames on July 27, 2007[/caption]

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Then, in fairly quick succession, the women headed to the loos, removed their dresses and did up their stockings… the fun was beginning.

We headed to the ‘play rooms’ and the atmosphere changed. It was sexy and seductive.

That first time I just walked around taking in the atmosphere, but since then I’ve been back four times, having sexual experiences twice. The keyword is ‘consent’ and it’s all classy and above board.

I’m actually friends with Emma Sayle, who set up with Killing Kittens, and went to school with Kate Middleton. She’s fantastic and inspirational.  

But it’s not the only sexy encounter I’ve had since hitting my late 40s and calling time on my 19-year marriage to my very nice husband and quite traditional life. 

At 51 and despite being a mum to three teens, I’ve finally learnt it’s not just men who can be ‘silver foxes’ and bag much younger partners but women too

I’ve also had sex with a much younger man in Bali. I was at a solo travellers’ meetup in August 2022 and I met him at a local bar. One thing led to another and before you knew it we were up to no good. 

It was only the next day I learnt that at 28 he was 20 years younger than me – I could have been his mother. 

He was stunned, but I just laughed. At 51 and despite being a mum to three teens, I’ve finally learnt it’s not just men who can be ‘silver foxes’ and bag much younger partners but women too. 

In fact, despite hitting half a century, I feel the most attractive and sexy. 

After my hotel liaison my man and I said our goodbyes – it was never going to be a long-lasting love affair – and I carried on with my trip.

But the memories of my sexy secret stayed etched on my memory, proof that while I was getting older I certainly wasn’t getting tamer. 

In fact – like Bridget Jones which was released this month to widespread acclaim – I’ve actually got sexier, more confident and more aware of what I want in the bedroom as I’ve aged. 

I don’t care about my figure – nor should any woman, irrespective of size – and know I am desirable. And while I am a size 10 and go to crossfit, my main appeal is confidence in myself. 

I’ve swiped right to blokes on Hinge (who I later ditched) and bought my first vibrator. Why not?

I believe I’m one of a number of women who are hitting 50ish and realising their true, sexy worth, who want to throw off the shackles of marriage and embrace their independence.

But it’s crazy to think that it was only four years ago that I was a wife and mum, and had been married for nearly two decades.

Friends were supportive but stunned when I announced our marriage was ending – but I believe I’m one of a number of women who are hitting 50ish and realising their true, sexy worth, who want to throw off the shackles of marriage and embrace their independence. 

I’m proof there’s no sell-by-date on sexiness… if anything I’m ageing like a fine wine. 

The 2022 pool escapade, when I was 49, is just one of many kinky experiences I’ve got up to since my divorce.

One guy gave me a full Fifty Shades of Grey-style experience, tying me up, using ice cubes, a feather, vibrator, flogger… it was a full sensory and sensual experience and super hot.

I feel more empowered now because I’m being myself, owning all of who I am. I know my worth. I know who I am. I know what I want. I won’t settle.

I’ve swiped right to blokes on Hinge (who I later ditched) and bought my first vibrator. Why not?

I haven’t had any particularly bad experiences dating. I’m very in tune with myself so trust myself fully.  

I met one guy and knew instantly he was a no and so I politely excused myself after 30 minutes. 

Sex post-50 has been the best ever. I lost my virginity at 16 to a man a lot older than me and it was, to put it bluntly… okay. 

Lying on the floor of my best friend’s house living room, I received carpet burns rather than an orgasm and I don’t know about him.

I was a wild and free teenager.  I had lots of boyfriends – always older than me – and had a lot of fun with them. 

It was only the next day I learnt that at 28 he was 20 years younger than me – I could have been his mother

I remember one guy I was dating and he was particularly filthy and so we’d end up having sex in all sorts of situations including on a hill on his car bonnet.

Though – in hindsight – it definitely always felt like sex was for the guy. I really didn’t know my body well or know what I wanted so let them lead.

I didn’t ever orgasm through penetration either.

I then had a long-term boyfriend on-off boyfriend for seven years from age 19 to 26 after meeting him at university.

I was in love and sex was really enjoyable with him… but I still never orgasmed.

In the “off” times I had a few flings I always seemed to have a man… or two.

After the final split it wasn’t long after that I met my former husband. We had a great connection and we had great sex together. 

This changed over the years after I became a mum.I became more body conscious and held back.  

On reflection I recognise I thought I needed to be someone I wasn’t. Motherhood caused me to become serious and uptight.

I actually cancelled my dating app in August last year, and I’ve not dated since – it felt right. 

There was a time when women were considered washed up at 50 – now it’s clear that’s when things are just beginning

It’s been an enlightening journey as I now feel in such a secure place within myself and at a point where I am so happy single and know that if I am meant to be in a relationship I will be but I am not seeking it.

It feels powerful. There was a time when women were considered washed up at 50 – now it’s clear that’s when things are just beginning. 

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