A WOMAN who slept with her lodger has admitted she can’t stop thinking about their saucy antics, despite him being a decade younger.
It all began when the man, who is a family friend, moved into her home back in October.
The mum asked other parents what she should do about the situation[/caption]
The mum and her lodger enjoyed a night of passion after one too many drinks[/caption]
“He is 10 years my junior, very likeable, we get along really well. As friends. Or so I thought until last night,” she wrote on Mumsnet.
It turns out the pair enjoyed a few too many drinks together and things got very steamy.
It started when he went in for a kiss and she didn’t object, she explained in the viral post, but the pair soon ended up in bed together.
It’s not just the age gap and housing situation that makes things a bit weird, the woman explained.
“I am a single parent to a child who is thankfully in school today and no wiser as to what happened,” she added.
Despite enjoying their one night together the mum said she has no desire to continue sleeping together or for a relationship.
“I do not want one and especially not with him, however his lease agreement is in place and as he is not from the same country as I am and knows nobody else here he wont be looking to move out,” she explained.
I need to refocus on my life and stop thinking of his very hot body in my bed.
But her toy boy might not have got the memo as the next morning he quipped about them being ‘friends with benefits‘, a comment that shocked the mum.
“I have never done that before and not comfortable with that arrangement, especially with my teenaged child,” she noted in the post.
Although both parties were single, the mum confessed she didn’t know what to do about the situation and asked other Mumsnet users for advice on her next move.
“Obviously discussing it with him is the right thing but we are both single, clearly attracted to each other and really do get along so well but sh*t we have now had sex.
“I don’t know what to do from here. Bloody stupidity. Actually really annoyed with myself this morning,” she wrote.
People were left divided over the incident with some urging the mum to ask him to move out and others saying the fling didn’t need to change anything.
“I think you need to ask him to move out to be honest,” one person commented.
“It’s permanently changed the relationship, and if that’s not what you want then you need to remove him/ yourself from this situation.”
But someone else replied: “I don’t feel you should feel bad if you both had a nice time. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
“It’s good that you’re both attracted to one another and it wasn’t the beer goggles that caused it.
“I guess you’ll have to be very careful and sensitive to the fact your child lives with you. I don’t think he needs to move out especially if you’re into him. Play it by ear for a while.”
Meanwhile, someone else praised the mum for “managing the situation like a pro”, but she wasn’t convinced that was the case.
“F**k I do think I bloody fancy him now and I do not want to,” she confessed.
“I need to refocus on my life and stop thinking of his very hot body in my bed,” the mum added.
The mum went on to admit she still hadn’t decided what she would do about the situation, but thought keeping her distance from him “for a few days” would be best.
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
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